Christian w/mental disorder?

Is there a difference between the rememberance in Matthew 5:23-25 and the remembrance of a person that is in spiritual ? I moved from California about two years ago. When I lived there I attended a church that was mentally not right for me. I had a few issues w/ one lady and we evetually discusse every thing. The problem is that in my mind I`m always worrying about this lady abd her family. If I have offended them etc. So the ladies husband used to be cool w/me. Last time I went to visit the church in Cali he acted kind of weird towards me:-/. In my head I`m trying to figure out did I do or say something? I wonder if it`s something I may or may not have said about 3 years ago to my besfriend in the church bathroom. The worst I could have said was `my mom told me she saw(or thinks she saw) brother Jacob smoking a cigarette`. I am not even sure if I actually uttered the words, I feel guilty. What if he`s mad @ me and my mom. Will my mom go to hell for me repeating to me what she thought she saw? Will she go to hell for not being aware of him being angry at us? Can she still bring her offering of praise to God? I`m 20 and these types of issues bother me in my mind ALL day!!!!