Question for Military married or divorced....Long Story?

Yikes, this guy sounds like a con artist. He was not truthful with you at all. So, am I clear that you have NOT married him yet? Do you have any legal ties to him at all? If not, do not contact him ever again. This is not the type of father you would want for your daughter. You also could contact the police and let them know what he is up to. I am not sure what his motives are, but he sounds shady.